For the gregarious only. |
'Comfort zone' is just another term for 'stuck in a rut'. At least that's the way the extroverts among us feel.
Want change?
Pick one!
If your routine is ... routine, plan a breakout; not a vacation, but a rut buster. Go bicycling in Denmark, volunteer in a soup kitchen, or in Africa, go climbing in Colorado, exploring in Wyoming, weekending in NY, or work in the garden; whatever adds a fresh perspective.
For a bizarre challenge, try talking to a teenager about whatever they want to talk about. One fellow talked about his first prom for as long as I was willing to smile and laugh and commiserate. Another complained at length about his pre-calc class and showed me the 'stupid homework' on his iPad. More commiserating.
My dental hygienist and I laughed long and hard, exchanging grand-baby stories while she had stuff in my mouth.
A colleague regaled me with horror stories about building a deck and how the dog fell through the unfinished hole. More commiserating.
A friend in Kenya laughed and told how the rain was so bad, you couldn't see, and her first grader couldn't go to school today.
Another fellow and I exchanged texts about his college progress and expenses.
My wife is sewing tick guards in pant legs for our son-in-law; he's a conservationist and has to be careful about such things. They did the design together, and he loves the result.
Most folks are easily engaged, and it's a lot more fun than just mmmphing at each other and moving on.
OK, that's the extrovert's view. What does an introvert do for fun?