From the 17th century to today, scientific method looks like this - you begin with your thoughts (hypothesis) on a subject -
- observe
- measure and experiment
- review and revise the hypothesis based on the result
That's how we learn, and if we're smart, we'll change and grow.
Relationship is a good example. Today's thought - in relationships, anger does harm.
- by observation, we note that anger produces division and weakens the bond between us.
- by measure,
- the more often anger intrudes, the more fractured the relationship becomes.
- the more intense the anger, the greater the fracture.
- by experiment, we find that understanding and objective communication strengthen the relationship and provide a positive experience for the parties.
- if we're smart, we'll review and revise our communication methodology accordingly.
Okay, that's helpful, but we'll only benefit if we actually do what we've proven is best.
We've all known folks with regular anger content in their relationships. Even ourselves, perhaps. Knowing the truth is not the same as doing it.
We've all known folks with regular anger content in their relationships. Even ourselves, perhaps. Knowing the truth is not the same as doing it.
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“Try this test," God says. "Bring a small part of your harvest to me so there can be food in my house. Test me! If you do this, I will bless you. Good things will come to you like rain falling from the sky. You will have more than enough of everything."
And again, "Give and it will be given to you, in full measure and more than enough."
We can prove or disprove the offered hypothesis.
Interestingly, the science agrees.
- Most folks are naturally clingy about their finances. Over time, it can become a fear-based character trait, a lifestyle.
- Those who give are less concerned about having, about getting ahead.
- Giving seems to relieve them of the fear associated with perhaps not having enough, and they're able to live more confidently, more reasonably.
- The change in them enables opportunity and productivity that before perhaps was hidden under the rug of insecurity.
- And interestingly, it opens relationships for helping each other. It's a life changer.
- Note: the change comes following a more benevolent heart, BUT if you give in order to get something in return, no change. You'll still be unchanged and emotionally crippled.
Givers worry less, smile more, and enjoy life more. There's more involved than just the gift, of course.
Okay, I'll shut up.
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