While typical in the developed world, this is not normal. |
So my wife and I were at the grocery store today (like the one in the top picture), and as we walked the aisles filled with incredible variety and quantity, I was reminded of my little friend and her bar of soap. And we think we're normal.
Half of the world lives on perhaps $5 per day or less. That's one tenth of the developed world average. Poverty is persistent and troublesome, and economic inequality is increasing rather rapidly around the world. Grocery stores perhaps are not the norm. As the national and international marketplace is reshaped by big businesses and international trade policies, the rich are doing quite well but at the expense of everyone else. This distribution of wealth and resources has nothing to do with intellect, level of effort, or diligence, of course.
Roadside clothing merchant, some new, some second-hand, all reasonably priced. This is normal. |
Djibouti, eastern Africa -- there are grocery stores in the capital city, but they're pricey. Street markets like this are the norm for most. |
Apparently, wealth corrupts. |
They knew I was coming to visit, so they bought fish to serve.
This is a normal kitchen for 2.5 billion folks. |
Wealth in the west has spawned an economic war where the goal of business is to get more and to do so by competing and winning. The resulting economic inequality is stunning, and we have evolved a culture where materialistic goals have replaced character and virtue and courageous service. Fortunately, there is a better path available for our children.
The high cost? Of growing up wealthy? ... it's perhaps a broken understanding of what's worthwhile and perhaps what's normal as well.
With wealth, one can focus on having and getting more as though that were somehow beneficial or important. Wealth drives wedges between people; it can crowd in and replace the good parts of life, the meaningful interaction between family members and with friends. Technology and media do that, do they not? Instead of hours spent together, there are hours spent in solo focus on entertainment things, commercialized and blinged to entice and engage our minds in a materialistic context. No benefit except to businesses.
A child raised in western culture and allowed to follow their educational and cultural norms is likely to grow up to be materialistic, intellectually narrow, and unaware of the real world. True?
Unfortunately, yes.
Is there a cure? Yes. For Adults? Yes, but it's difficult.
Despite the extraordinary blessings of living in a developed economy, there is a downside that must be overcome if we want to hold on to what is worthwhile.
You might appreciate Psychology Today - The Problem With Rich Kids